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Physical Movement Excessive fidgeting may be a sign they’re lying and feeling the pressure. So look out for swaying, tapping fingers, eyes flitting around, etc. Again this can go the other way. Some ...
In relationships, narcissists want to use and abuse as much as possible. They aspire to take as much as they can, whilst giving back as little as possible. So they test boundaries to see what they can ...
How Narcissists Set Up Double Binds Narcissists may set you up with double binds deliberately. Or they might happen by chance. Here’s some examples of deliberate double binds… The narcissist leaves a ...
What A Narcissistic Collapse Looks Like Narcissistic collapses are like a sudden emotional fall from grace. The high-flying, untouchable persona that the narcissist carefully cultivated comes crashing ...
You Won’t Find Anyone Better Than Me Narcissists say this to sow seeds of doubt in your mind. As they hope they drained your self esteem to the point where you believe this. The narcissist hopes that ...
However narcissists don’t want accountability. They want free reign to do as they please. Because they feel superior, and entitled. Plus they don’t care how their actions affect others. As long as ...
Some narcissists benefit from people feeling sorry for them. They empathise with the narcissists brokenness. And the narcissist encourages this by playing the victim, making their partner feel ...
Narcissists often idealise their partners at the beginning. And treat them like they’re the most precious thing on earth. Then over time, they grow to resent, and even hate them. Why such a stark ...
It’s highly likely you’re not their first, and you won’t be their last. Which shows they’re at fault, not you. Narcissists often play our anger against us. They use “reactive abuse”, where they wind ...
If the narcissist is in charge of the purse strings, then they may withhold cash to punish. Particularly if you’re financially dependant on them. Narcissists often persuade their partners to give up ...
Mirroring To Appear “Normal” Most narcissists are aware that they’re different. Yet they want to fit in, and be liked and admired. So they mirror people who have the qualities they want, but don’t ...
But they don’t enjoy this collection of men by chance. They purposively gather them. And these men aren’t Saints who love giving. They’re manipulated. Once you learn how female narcissists draw men in ...