Narcissists spend a lifetime mimicking emotions and feelings. They become so skilled, they fool close ones for years. Most let their masks slip from time to time. Especially with those closest to them ...

Having been in a 12 year relationship with a narcissist, and now 6 years alone, I can catalytically say I’ve zero desire to return. I’m MUCH happier now. There’s many reason reasons why being alone is ...

Narcissists know that if they blame someone, it sows at least a shred of doubt. Enough to get them confused and questioning themselves. Which often gains at least a “knock for knock” impression of ...

However narcissists don’t want accountability. They want free reign to do as they please. Because they feel superior, and entitled. Plus they don’t care how their actions affect others. As long as ...

Narcissists want the power balance of relationships locked firmly in their favour. And they know that if you realise they need you, this shifts the power away from them. And they can’t have that.

Empathy is putting yourself in other peoples shoes. It encourages people to grow and mature, as they learn about people outside themselves. And it increases their ability to coordinate with others, ...

To Feel Alive Narcissists clunk around in protective suits of armour. Shielding themselves from their emotions. Narcissists want to avoid pain, often because they’ve felt so much in their past. So ...

Narcissists “Banter” Narcissists often use supposed “banter” to put people down. But really they’re insults dressed as banter. The main difference between banter and put downs is intention. Banter is ...

Reactive Abuse Some narcissists like to bait someone into attacking them. Then play the victim. A favourite tactic is the use of subtle digs, designed to wind them up. The narcissist looks for a chink ...

To Feel Powerful Narcissists may mirror you if they perceive you as powerful or successful. And that’s because they harbour delusions of superiority. And badly want to be put on a pedestal. So ...

I’ve dealt with many narcissists over the years. And there’s several things I’ve noticed many say. Some of these phrases might not be word for word the same. But they’re similar. And have a similar ...

You Won’t Find Anyone Better Than Me Narcissists say this to sow seeds of doubt in your mind. As they hope they drained your self esteem to the point where you believe this. The narcissist hopes that ...