At the beginning of a relationship or friendship, narcissists pretend to respect boundaries. Because they want to draw you in and gain your trust. But gradually they push more and more. Getting you ...

You’re Not Listening To Me In my experience, narcissists say ”You’re not listening to me”, when you’re not agreeing with them. You could be listening to EVERYTHING. And respond appropriately. But they ...

Narcissists often idealise their partners at the beginning. And treat them like they’re the most precious thing on earth. Then over time, they grow to resent, and even hate them. Why such a stark ...

Having been in a 12 year relationship with a narcissist, and now 6 years alone, I can catalytically say I’ve zero desire to return. I’m MUCH happier now. There’s many reason reasons why being alone is ...

Narcissists are impulsive, and don’t think through consequences. So they’re often blind as to how big a commitment children are. Preferring to focus on the adulation instead. Narcissists know that ...

Narcissists LIKE people walking on egg shells. It makes them feel powerful, and it usually gives them more control over those around them. People in fear are more likely to do as they’re told. Most ...

If the narcissist is in charge of the purse strings, then they may withhold cash to punish. Particularly if you’re financially dependant on them. Narcissists often persuade their partners to give up ...

Narcissists are probably the biggest virtue signallers. This is because they want to be liked and admired. But they don’t want to put the effort into being virtuous. And they don’t want to make the ...

To Feel Alive Narcissists clunk around in protective suits of armour. Shielding themselves from their emotions. Narcissists want to avoid pain, often because they’ve felt so much in their past. So ...

Reactive Abuse Some narcissists like to bait someone into attacking them. Then play the victim. A favourite tactic is the use of subtle digs, designed to wind them up. The narcissist looks for a chink ...

However narcissists don’t want accountability. They want free reign to do as they please. Because they feel superior, and entitled. Plus they don’t care how their actions affect others. As long as ...

You Won’t Find Anyone Better Than Me Narcissists say this to sow seeds of doubt in your mind. As they hope they drained your self esteem to the point where you believe this. The narcissist hopes that ...